I AM
Candace Henry
"I am a mother, daughter, sister, cousin, niece, aunt, and friend—each role shaping who I am and how I connect with the world. I find joy in cooking, bringing ideas to life through creativity, and embracing the art of planning and problem-solving. As a lifelong learner, my passion lies in forging meaningful connections and sharing knowledge, experiences, and inspiration with others."
My Life Lessons
As a daughter, I learned to turn life's lemons into lemonade—to embrace challenges with resilience, continuously work on myself, and believe that I am capable of anything.
As a mother, I discovered that everyone possesses unique skills, treasures, and perspectives. My children taught me the depth of unconditional love and the profound responsibility of parenthood.
As a niece, I learned that love knows no bounds, extending beyond immediate family to the embrace of extended relatives.
With age comes growth, and I often ask myself, “Will this matter in 50 years?” As someone who loves to learn, I believe everything holds significance. Setbacks are opportunities to reassess and begin anew. Disappointments, when met with faith, inspire us to dream bigger. Every moment presents a chance to create—we choose whether our actions build up or tear down.
One of my greatest realizations was uncovering my undiagnosed dyslexia. This new understanding empowered me to advocate for others within the education system, fostering confidence and paving pathways to success.
I am blessed to have traveled this journey of life. I love to connect and give and receive with others. We all have our stories, to share and learn from each other.
MY LIFE
Interview with Elisabeth Roberts
Q: For those who don’t know you, where did you grow up and how did it shape your values?
I grew up in a small East Texas town in the nineteen sixties, where I learned to cherish the value of being surrounded by a community of support in my daily life. Upon leaving East Texas, I created the same sense of community and values within the larger cities where I have lived by connecting with others in every city, including Dallas, Los Angeles, Chicago, and New York City. By connecting with others I am always in the company of friends and family wherever I go.
Q: How did you happen to live in all of those cities?
Growing up in a small town, the television was our window to the outside world. Every Sunday evening, our family would watch two shows: 60 Minutes and The Ed Sullivan Show. I wanted to be an entertainer and a flight attendant.
Q: What came first, entertainer or flight attendant?
I was hired by American Airlines when I was 19 years old as a Reservationist my dream was to fly! Being a Reservationist introduced the Art of Sells, an essential when applied to life skills.
Q: How did you become a flight attendant?
I interviewed within the company but wasn’t hired then an opportunity came to work with a different airline.
Q: How long did you work with the other airline?
I was there for about 18 months. It was great, I traveled to London, Frankfort, Maui, and all of the different cities in the United States. I was so young that I had to adjust to this whole new big world of going from a “country girl to a global traveler.” I quickly realized that being a flight attendant early on was just part of my journey. I learned American was hiring flight attendants 10 years ago, I quickly jumped on the opportunity! I appreciated the value of the opportunity for my kids to travel the world to places that I knew we as a family would not have the budget to do so. I encourage everyone and almost anyone to consider the airline industry, as a microcosm of a macrocosm (a little world of the larger world) which includes people from all walks of life.
Q: What gave you the confidence to become a model?
When I decided to be a model, I stood at 5’6”, with a full face of acne, but my family made us believe that we could do or be anyone. I never considered that I would need to be four inches taller and need a clear complexion to be a model. At the end of my senior year of high school, as faith showed up, my face miraculously cleared, and my height was not a factor. I enjoyed thirty years of a career in entertainment and travel, living by faith, and learning that it is not the destination but the journey bringing value to my life.
Q: Why did you move to New York City?
A: I was blessed to have a successful career in Dallas with the Kim Dawson Agency but when I decided to study acting, I moved to New York City. The city was very different in the 1980s, the streets were not safe making me aware of my surroundings, and yet there was much excitement in the air. This made me grow in ways that I wouldn’t have experienced if I had remained in Dallas.
Q: What was the most important lesson you learned there?
I learned to survive.
Q: What do you mean by you learn to survive?
I had read the book, The Game of Life by Florence Scovel Shinn a few years before I decided to move to New York, in the book she talks about, "Digging your Ditches" which today I translate to “living by Faith by taking action” one of Unity's fifth principles, to act as though it is happening.
Q: What type of work did you do to support yourself?
I worked as a babysitter, and a waitress, and four days a week, I worked on the production team of The Cosby Show for three years. That experience taught me how to work professionally later in my career as a fashion producer and stylist. Oh yeah, I was a full-time student too!
Q: Did you work as a model in New York?
No, New York City is more high fashion for my look, where my category was all American and nothing exotic, but it allowed me to hone in on my craft of acting. Two years later, I moved to Los Angeles all of the hard work paid off, and I worked as a commercial actress for ten years until I had children.
Q: How did your life change?
It was like starting all over again with my young family. We left Los Angeles due to the first actor's strike in 1998, we moved back to Texas as a family. Shortly after that, I became a single parent and head of the household. I had two young kids; five and two years old. I relate it to being in the desert in search of the Promised Land. We had to travel on a whole bunch of big dreams and faith.
Q: What was the most important lesson you learned at that time?
I learned to discipline my thoughts and not give up, "If you want to change your situation, you have to change your thoughts about it."
Q: What would you want to share with someone who is traveling with the same challenges that you had as a single mom?
I would say to them to believe in the power that you are created out of and with that power your thoughts and words matter.
Q: What is next?
APFA DFW Vice President…. I desire to become an elected advocate who works with a team that listens to the voices of its members. I have worked as an American Flight Attendant for 10 years. For four years, I’ve had opportunities within Flight Service to create code cases that supported our PBS Bidding application, support team members in the bidding process, advocating for DFW Flight Attendants in sensitive cases of biases and misunderstandings resulting in a win-win for team members.
Q: Why does it matter?
It matters because life happens when we are working. We have parents that we care for, children who have important moments that happen while we are serving others and many times we can easily miss “something” and need an advocate. I want to be that person, for me, that is why it matters. I want to make a difference because I have the time and the training to do it, and because I care.
Q: Why aren’t you running for President?
I want to be that wing person who supports the leadership. Every successful team needs people who support the initiative of leadership and a voice that listens to its members. I know my skill is to listen and share in open and candid conversations, this is why Vice President. I know who I am.
Q: What if you don’t win?
I will enjoy the journey! I’ve learned that one thing always leads to the next thing and every experience is an opportunity to learn something new. I desire to win but it is also my desire for the voice of the membership to reflect its desire too.
Q: Anything else?
Nope, I’m good! Thanks, Elisabeth!
ER: Thank you, and good luck!